No Sex...

The last few months have been very difficult for me following my decision (you can read about it here). I've battled on though and now things are returning to normal.

With the exception of one thing. My sex life is practically non-existent. Ever since the abortion my OH has gone all weird on me. He won't hug or kiss me anymore unless I ask him to, and he won't initiate sex. In fact, if I initiate it he almost always says he's not in the mood. The number of times we've had sex since Christmas I can count on one hand (minus a couple of fingers!).

I've tried talking to him about this, but he says nothing's wrong. Either that, or he acts like he didn't hear me say anything. Am I doing something wrong? Am I missing something blindingly obvious? Am I over-reacting? Arrgh. Someone, please, put me out of my misery.